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Dear Ellen
My husband is not at all romantic.he never kisses me or shows any love. Sex is just a 2 minute affair which is less than twice a year. Most of the time he works away and is far from home. as far as i know he is not having an affair. i feel so lonely. when i talk about it with him,he either changes the topic or makes a joke and leaves the room.i am quite attractive to look at. i have other men friends who would go for an affair with me if i show inclination but i don't want to deceive my husband. i believe in fidelity in marriage. i am very frustrated and lonely.
Thanks Reanna
Hi Reanna,
I'm sorry that your feeling low, and feel your being ignored or mentally tortured in a way by your husband. You must tell him, are you having ana affair it means a lot this marriage and I need to know where I stand, i cant live like this. either love me and show affection or set me free and I can find happiness again, if that doesn't provoke a response then I would consider alternative arrangements in your relationship.
Ellen
Aunty Ellen
I only recently (last couple of days) joined your group, not having been in a group for years, & years & years. I am now separated from my wife of 28 years.
Don't ask me why, but I asked a member of your chatroom out. It was a spur of the moment thing. Lots of coincidences seemed to be fate shouting at me. This person, probably quite rightly, rejected me out of hand & even said I was over desperate. This was the first person I had asked out on a date for 30 years & I feel ashamed & foolish. What little confidence I had has been dented. While I was waiting for her reply I was getting excited, full of vitality, hope, looking forward to a new beginning.
My problems is: Do I dare ask anyone else out? If so how? What do I look for? Who?
Am I a sad hopeless case or what? Am I really over desperate?
Thank you for your time, Fitch
Dear Fitch
Good heavens young man, if all chaps gave up after one attempt, us girls would be a very lonely lot!! I most certainly don't think you sound desperate, it takes courage to make the first move and perhaps some ladies don't quite appreciate that.
Try to look at your new found singledom as a new beginning, enjoy the freedom and if you see a lady that catches your eye, don't be shy, ask her out for a drink, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain!
You've heard the saying "you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find a prince"? well make that princess and get going, the more you ask the more chance you have of meeting someone special! Be brave, I wish you lots of luck and happy dating.
Love Ellen
Aunty Ellen,
My fella thinks more of his mates than me, should i dump him????
Dear ????
Yes you certainly should my dear, lifes to short to waste on silly boys! Go out and find yourself a real man.
Love Ellen
Aunty Ellen,
Can a southerner turn into a northerner overnight? I've tried eating pies and blackpudding but I still speak like a southerner and can't get any girls what should I do?
Desperate of Clitheroe
Dear Clitheroe
Well it won't happen overnight, i'm sure you can appreciate the art of wearing a flat cap at a jaunty angle takes years of practice! Keep at it though and don't forget to accessorise with a whippet, a very popular choice this season.
Have you a lovely quilted green jacket and wellies that you could wear the nest time you are buying a pig at market, this is certain to attract the lovelies
Love Ellen
Aunty Ellen Please help me out here, i love my fella loads but he is driving me crazy with his jealously. I like to come online in my free time and chat to my friends, but they are male friends and he cant cope with that. I met him online 3 years ago and i think hes scared i might get to friendly with the guys iam talking now!! and maybe even dump him for another online love. What can i do, i value my friends online but i love my fella(i even have his child).....help me out iam being torn apart!.
Dear Bothered
You say that you met you're man online, so he thinks he knows the sort of chatting that goes on! so if all of your mates are male you can see why he may be worried.You know that your not doing anything for him to be concerned about so have a chat with him,tell him you love him and point out that being at home on the computer is a lot better than being out on the town regularly with the girls!! Perhaps he has something that he enjoys doing that you don't? You could do them at the same time so he doesn't feel neglected.
Dear Ellen
My husband says my boobs are not big enough, i am a 38c should i think about an enlargement operation ? i think they are large enough already what do you think ? from worried mammories
Dear worried mammories
From my own personal experience, anything more than a handful is a waste, perhaps you should encourage him to have a penis extension and see how that makes him feel !
Dear ellen. i too have 38c/d breast and im more than happy with mine...pls advise your lady to tell her husband to shut up and tell him to get over it, he could do a lot worse!!!
xx
Dear xx, thank you for your input,I hope if worried mammories reads this she will feel reassured that we are all different and we should be happy with what we have been given, there are plenty of men out there to appreciate us whatever form we take!
Love yourself ladies and the men will follow. Love Ellen x
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